hartseer= heart sore=sad

i dnt know what it is but it seems this world is going crazy, no actually , its that i'm only re-realising how sad it is now. recently there've been these crazy attacks on christians in india and thats jus heart breaking . but wats even worse is that there was this old man who was forced to convert to hinduism by a violent and angry mob and what he said was that he wasn't goin to change his faith bcos he was born a christian. and thats sad because u can't be born a christian bcos christianity isn't a culture ur born into but a personal choice a decision made of your own free will to follow the One TRUE Saviour. and that myt sound offensive but its true and with all that i am thats wat i believe . so it saddens me greatly wen the most the most important decision of ur life is reduced to the genetic lottery cos thats not how it works ....

Please don't make me do this

DISCLAIMER: this contains possibly unconventional and biased opinions , so i'd love for you to say something if you think differently or agree

Awryt, well today ws a day that i decided to fritter away my time i bunked few lectures and sort of just chilled. Before you think i'm wasting this golden oppurtunity to learn and grow , i'd like to let u know that it was merely my way of breathing after a super crazy week of 4 tests in 2 days ( God was super AMAZING every step of the way.)
oh ya back to the story, in this time i happened to meet a goodish guy friend (the goodish quantifies the friendship by the way n not the guy) n we chilled . N he told me about this girl who is super in ....um ... i think i'd saycrush with him . n he was like i dnt know why and i realised that it's time someone shared with the boys how they happen to make us fall in luv with them ( so next time you're not totally surprised when you find out one of your female friends is sprung (hip hop term for googly eyed)

um ok this is quite revealling but here goes in attempt to save you from awkward situations ,

you always touch us now you might be going huh , but when a guy keeps touching a girl outside of the hello and goodbye hugs a girl starts to wonder , unless of course you touch everyone all the time.

you take special notice of things that she wears , that guys generally don't notice , like when she's had an inch trimmed off her hair.

You pay her special attention in conversation

You overcare by that i mean you make overly sincere apologies when you think u've hurt our feelings , again this does not apply if you're like this with everyone

you do the deep soulful stare into the eyes when making conversation

you care about how she'd like her ideal guy to be like e.g
"i love books and if i date any1 they have to love reading"
guy replies " i love books , i read all the time." ( could just be that he innocently likes to read , but then is not the time it bring it out )

You could just be too nice and lovely cos that is a major leg breaker ( broke it when they fell for you )

Touching , lets go back to touching chipo's fool-proof rule guaranteed to diminish your casualty factor is A. reduce touching of girls outsyd hello's and good bye's , seriously.

and now you might be wondering why would i want to reduce my chick- factor. But if you're a good guy and especially if you're a christian guy you're called to be gentleman and to protect a ladies honour. The best way to do that would be to guard her heart becasue i'm sure you wouldn't want a bride who's scarred because she accidentally fell for someone whilst waiting for you.


And wait b4 you get any ideas , no i am not in love nor am i heartbroken , but i have been and jus thinking about that poor girl today made me think i oughta tell you guys.